Clarification

To clarify


My issue was not in not knowing the date of Pa's burial...It was in not know the burial was going to be such a production.


Not that Pa deserved anything less and I mean no disrespect but because the ceremony was such a big deal, I was super hurt by that because I did not get to be a part of that in any way. 


I did know there would be a burial for Pa eventually and that I would not be there for it.  I didn't realize there would be singing, speaking and prayers led by my sweet family, without me.  That is what upset me.